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Originally Posted by Vegasdogg To be fair there is the story of Dwayne Wade's mother who had to serve time for Heroin addiction, and I am pretty sure she sold crack. People can change, and Wade's mother did. Kids mature, and Dez can do the same. I didn't think our team would have the environment where it could work for both sides, but I am not writing the kid off or allowing his mother to determine who he can become. William Green and Dez Bryant are completely different situations. |
Thanks for bringing that up Vegas. That's an example of 1 bad parental role model; but I think when you add a 2nd bad parent incapable of showing their kids right and wrong - the chances of the offspring knowing right from wrong decreases considerably.
I'm talking about BOTH of Dez's parents, which makes him a much closer parallel to William Green. You can't choose your parents in this world Vegas; and they're usually the first line of instilling right and wrong in the kids.
Here's 2 scary things I read about prior to the draft (less than 365 days after he was suspended for not choosing right over wrong):
"Angela Bryant, was just 15 when she delivered Dez. The father McArthur Hatton, was in his 40s." When Angela was 18 she was dealing drugs, PCP and cocaine to support her 3 children.
There's a reason that specific act of conception above is a crime in most states in this country. Second, the mother's decision making to add 2 more children before she was 18 was just as troublesome. And then the planning to take care of them seemed to be centered selling and doing drugs. Alot of drug addicts in the streets resort to prostitution and theft. It ain't pretty. For all we know, she was selling sex to get a fix when she had Dez. If you grow up with a value system of seeing mom doing drugs all the way until you're 10 or 20 - you don't KNOW they're even wrong.
I'm not BLAMING Dez for that; but I'm reminding everyone we drafted a similar talent level in William Green that was never taught right from wrong by his parents. It's exactly like William Green's parental role models. William, just like Dez, got suspended in college for an inability to conform to rules. Green only had to miss a game (and was suspended by his coach); but nevertheless the conformance red flag was there. Bryant missed most of the 2009 season. TALENT wasn't the issue for either player IMO. When I read I read about William Green - I was hoping that winning the lottery with a round 1 contract would make a nice happily ever after for him and us. His learned behaviors and genetic predisposition to drug caught him from behind after a noce close to a rookie season and early 100 yard outings vrs Oakland & Pitt in 2003.
We couldn't afford that kind of risk in round 1 this year while Dallas' offense COULD afford that risk at pick #24.
You don't have to agree. I just look at other examples of 2 crappy parents and I can find a pretty easy trend of character impeding success. Vince Young's mom is an alcoholic and he's made 2 Pro Bowls, AFC Rookie of the Year, and he's 26-13 as a starter so at times his talent shines through.
However, there's been 2 seasons where his character flaws made alot of fans forget his talent especially when he had a pulled hammy/groin handcuffing his game outside of the pocket. His dad was in prison and missing alot of his life. The media talks more about VY's character flaws than his talent. So when
BOTH parents are bad role models - I've seen it catch up with even the best of talents in this league. You want another example of 2 horrible parents? Michael Vick's parents. Pac Man Jones' dad was shot to death before he was a teen hanging with bad people; and his mom was so bad his grandmother tried to raise him. Talent or character the issue there?
- Tom F.