I'm betting if we had a conversation, we're not disagreeing at all except for affiliation/psychographic/family stuff.
My stance: Of course we need military to protect ourselves but we have about 1,000 times what we could ever use. Why? Why do we make super duper planes the military quite literally doesn't want? Well, money, of course. Somebody gets a megabajillion buck contract out of that, like useless Georgian voting machines from the former head of Kemp's campaign.
That's 'Merica! Funnel that money upwards. And if anybody tries to stop you... LOBBY!! Tell your constituents that anybody who tries to make the rich less rich must hate America!!
Of course there should still be 911 calls that result in uniformed and armed police... but that's about 10% of what they show up for now and they've wanted out of mental health matters and marriage counseling for a long while. We put WAAAAY too much money into cops and their military gear that's used once a year to make mobs angry. A big ol' crush-your-souls show of force doesn't turn out to crush souls. Just pisses people off.
Cops need to be cops again, wearing normal uniforms and deeply connected to their communities, showing up to do something besides get badass. Camden, NJ, is seriously showing how it's done and it absolutely works. Police is to public safety as a bandaid is to cancer.
Oh, and most of them need fired and then they can reapply, like Camden (and Compton). You can't train a violent racist. You just need to stop hiring violent racists, which requires a clean slate. Hell, 75% of them wear symbols and can't help themselves on social media. They are not bright.
What's better? Ask Camden. If you stop shoveling money at police, you can put it into schools. Healthcare, mental and otherwise. Community centers. Urban renewal and restoration. We've found when police presence in neighborhoods of color looks like it does in my town, Westlake Village? Violent crime goes down, not up.
And when people feel heard, when they're getting a quality education and have access to good, affordable healthcare and live in a reasonably comfortable home while getting those A's so they can go to a good college? They aren't doing crime. It's not like they're genetically drawn to it.
And solving violent crimes? That goes way up. Camden has gone from 16% to 61% in solving murders because the communities trust them. All the AKs and tanks in the world don't solve a murder when nobody trusts you. We've seen where that version goes. We're there right now. It didn't work at all, trying to be the bully.
See, when you dial 911, you might need a caseworker more than armed cops. Unarmed guy dancing in the street is a mental health issue. But cops showed up and he got shot instead. For no good reason. As someone said, what if you called the fire department to help get your dog out of the sewer and they set your house on fire? That's how black communities feel about cops. That's "the talk" black parents must have with their kids.
Being supportive of a reasonable military and normal-ass police force is great and just good common sense. I feel the same way. But when I say our problem is a toxic masculine culture of guns and war and violence, to the point we believe army weapons of mass death should be easily obtainable by just about anybody? When mass school shootings are also known as Tuesdays? When no other Democratic society has the tiniest fraction of a gun violence problem that we do?
There's a zero percent chance we can just carry on like this. And cop stuff is just the beginning. Incoming generations don't feel so emotionally dependent on weapons and violence to feel whole. They have below zero interest in ignorant racism. Deep, meaningful change is happening, feel it under your feet.
The NFL, the military, NASCAR, most of Tucker's advertisers, and practically everybody else knows. We all need to look in the mirror 'cuz shit's changing. The people who need to "love it or leave it" now are the ones romanticizing the evil shitheads we righteously defeated (Nazis, Confederates).
OH: To sum up? If your cops are showing up all locked and loaded with their tanks (Ferguson, holy shit already) and body armor and tear gas and metal bats? That means you 100% failed as a society and chunks of your population are poor, disenfranchised, and they don't believe you really have their best interests at heart, so they either wallow in hell, lay down and die, or find a way.
But it's because you failed as a society. You're broken.